How a simple act can brighten Christmas for older New Zealanders

Older New Zealanders contribute so much to whānau and communities but a new national survey from Enliven shows there’s more we can all do to ensure they feel valued, included and connected, especially during the holiday season.

Enliven’s survey found 65% of respondents believe older adults (65+) are not valued enough in New Zealand society, while 56% believe older people are actively contributing to their communities

The nationwide survey, conducted by Enliven, a health and disability service of Presbyterian Support, received 627 responses from across the country. While 55% of respondents believe older people actively contribute to their communities, nearly two-thirds (65%) feel older New Zealanders are not valued enough in society.

“This is a reminder that connection matters and it doesn’t have to be complicated,” says Enliven spokesperson Wendy Hoskin.

“During the holiday season, routines change, and families get busy. For some older people, that can mean fewer invitations, fewer conversations, and a much quieter day than it used to be. A phone call, a visit, or a seat at the table can make a real difference.”

The survey provides an insight into how people view older New Zealanders and what helps create a stronger connection and belonging.

“Older people hold our stories, our humour, our history and they continue to shape our communities in practical ways every day,” says Wendy. “Feeling valued is about being included, listened to, and remembered not just at Christmas, but all year round.”

Enliven supports older people to live well and stay connected through at-home and community services, social programmes and events, and residential care — helping people maintain independence, friendships and everyday connection.

This holiday season, Enliven is encouraging New Zealanders to think about someone who might be doing it tough, and take one small step:

• make a call or send a message
• pop in for a quick visit
• offer a lift to a community event
• invite someone to share a meal or a walk

“Connection is one of the simplest gifts we can give,” says Wendy. “And for someone who’s feeling overlooked, it can be the one thing that changes their day.”